commiserate (with) 1 of 2

commiseration

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noun

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Synonym Chooser

How does the noun commiseration contrast with its synonyms?

Some common synonyms of commiseration are compassion, condolence, pity, and sympathy. While all these words mean "the act or capacity for sharing the painful feelings of another," commiseration suggests pity expressed outwardly in exclamations, tears, or words of comfort.

murmurs of commiseration filled the loser's headquarters

In what contexts can compassion take the place of commiseration?

The words compassion and commiseration can be used in similar contexts, but compassion implies pity coupled with an urgent desire to aid or to spare.

treats the homeless with great compassion

When is condolence a more appropriate choice than commiseration?

While the synonyms condolence and commiseration are close in meaning, condolence applies chiefly to formal expression of grief to one who has suffered loss.

expressed their condolences to the widow

When is it sensible to use pity instead of commiseration?

While in some cases nearly identical to commiseration, pity implies tender or sometimes slightly contemptuous sorrow for one in misery or distress.

felt pity for the captives

When could sympathy be used to replace commiseration?

The words sympathy and commiseration are synonyms, but do differ in nuance. Specifically, sympathy often suggests a tender concern but can also imply a power to enter into another's emotional experience of any sort.

went to my best friend for sympathy
in sympathy with her desire to locate her natural parents

Example Sentences

Recent Examples of Synonyms for commiserate (with)
Verb
  • Cue more sofa wails and pitying looks at family gatherings when relatives ask you about your love life.
    Olivia Petter, Vogue, 23 Dec. 2024
  • Gi-hun and Jun-ho’s simultaneous searches have been equally unsuccessful, and the people in their lives seem to pity them.
    Jennifer Zhan, Vulture, 26 Dec. 2024
Noun
  • Members of the Permanent Fund staff offered sympathy but did not accept responsibility for Peter Pan’s demise.
    ProPublica, ProPublica, 13 Feb. 2025
  • Does the person's story elicit emotions of sympathy?
    Betty Lin-Fisher, USA TODAY, 12 Feb. 2025
Noun
  • Take a moment to watch these other random acts of kindness captured on camera!
    Ronnie Li, USA TODAY, 10 Feb. 2025
  • The viral video left many TikTok users emotional and grateful for the couple's kindness.
    Yaakov Katz, Newsweek, 7 Feb. 2025
Noun
  • This is a scandalous example of a broken system where common sense and good judgment were overruled by bad advice, lack of compassion, irresponsible fiscal oversight and a litigious culture.
    Marsha Sutton, San Diego Union-Tribune, 17 Feb. 2025
  • Time is malleable, reality is only a function of our choices, and people can create their own second chances — ideas that Universal Language borrows from Kiarostami’s cinematic library of compassion, and then makes its own.
    Roxana Hadadi, Vulture, 15 Feb. 2025
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“Commiserate (with).” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/commiserate%20%28with%29. Accessed 21 Feb. 2025.

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