commiserate (with) 1 of 2

commiseration

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noun

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Synonym Chooser

How does the noun commiseration contrast with its synonyms?

Some common synonyms of commiseration are compassion, condolence, pity, and sympathy. While all these words mean "the act or capacity for sharing the painful feelings of another," commiseration suggests pity expressed outwardly in exclamations, tears, or words of comfort.

murmurs of commiseration filled the loser's headquarters

In what contexts can compassion take the place of commiseration?

The words compassion and commiseration can be used in similar contexts, but compassion implies pity coupled with an urgent desire to aid or to spare.

treats the homeless with great compassion

When is condolence a more appropriate choice than commiseration?

While the synonyms condolence and commiseration are close in meaning, condolence applies chiefly to formal expression of grief to one who has suffered loss.

expressed their condolences to the widow

When is it sensible to use pity instead of commiseration?

While in some cases nearly identical to commiseration, pity implies tender or sometimes slightly contemptuous sorrow for one in misery or distress.

felt pity for the captives

When could sympathy be used to replace commiseration?

The words sympathy and commiseration are synonyms, but do differ in nuance. Specifically, sympathy often suggests a tender concern but can also imply a power to enter into another's emotional experience of any sort.

went to my best friend for sympathy
in sympathy with her desire to locate her natural parents

Examples Sentences

Recent Examples of Synonyms for commiserate (with)
Verb
  • Jesse Eisenberg — who wrote, directed, and stars opposite Culkin — is the ostensible protagonist David, Benji’s uptight, socially awkward cousin who envies and pities him in equal measure, but A Real Pain is Culkin’s showcase.
    Rachel Handler, Vulture, 22 Oct. 2024
  • Now the wife, who is 70 and a devotee of spas and facial rejuvenation, pities her fat husband.
    Mary Ann Grossmann, Twin Cities, 10 Nov. 2024
Noun
  • Then the bubble popped in 2022, and the NASDAQ slumped in sympathy.
    Michael Foster, Forbes, 11 Jan. 2025
  • The time on set gave her a practical education in filmmaking and an enduring sympathy for extras.
    Julian Sancton, The Hollywood Reporter, 11 Jan. 2025
Noun
  • Come back to kindness and your anxiety will come down to calm.
    Sandy Cohen, Los Angeles Times, 7 Jan. 2025
  • And while the circumstances may have been different with each encounter, nearly everyone sharing their story, remarked on Elvis’ kindness, generosity, and deep appreciation for those who loved and supported his music.
    Pam Windsor, Forbes, 7 Jan. 2025
Noun
  • Rather, art is often a conduit for or a trace of the collective generosity, solidarity, and compassion that provide those in need with care, respite, and dignity.
    Michaëla de Lacaze Mohrmann, Artforum, 1 Jan. 2025
  • Venus in Aquarius, on the other hand, lights up your 12th house of dreams and all things behind the scenes, heightening your intuition and compassion.
    Valerie Mesa, People.com, 31 Dec. 2024
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“Commiserate (with).” Merriam-Webster.com Thesaurus, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/thesaurus/commiserate%20%28with%29. Accessed 15 Jan. 2025.

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