self-effacing

adjective

self-ef·​fac·​ing ˌself-i-ˈfā-siŋ How to pronounce self-effacing (audio)
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: having or showing a tendency to make oneself modestly or shyly inconspicuous
His passions and faith run soul-deep, his gentle wit is always self-effacing and never insulting …Don Gaetz
… she was an extremely self-effacing, private person who never sought the limelight and did not leave the usual artifacts that enable a biographer to reconstruct life patterns.Douglas R. McManis

Examples of self-effacing in a Sentence

he's dating a sweet, self-effacing girl
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On the trail, this involves a delicate pairing of self-effacing anecdote and grand proclamation. Sarah Larson, The New Yorker, 30 Sep. 2024 Our self-effacing narrator is Victor (Mouret regular Vincent Macaigne), the schlubby, doting husband of high-school English teacher Joan (India Hair), who is beginning to feel stifled by his unwavering devotion. Guy Lodge, Variety, 30 Aug. 2024 Where once drunkenness for the sake of drunkenness among women was framed as unladylike (and therefore to do so could be seen as a feminist statement), our attitudes to drinking have taken on a far more self-effacing, joking tone. Sadhbh O'Sullivan, refinery29.com, 12 Oct. 2019 Such inconsistencies are papered over with enthusiastic praise of what Mordaunt believes to be the eternally courageous, generous, resourceful, and self-effacing virtues of the British people. Andrew Moravcsik, Foreign Affairs, 19 Apr. 2022 See all Example Sentences for self-effacing 

Word History

First Known Use

1854, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of self-effacing was in 1854

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“Self-effacing.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-effacing. Accessed 8 Nov. 2024.

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