overdemanding

adjective

over·​de·​mand·​ing ˌō-vər-di-ˈman-diŋ 

-ˈmän-,

-dē-

: excessively demanding

overdemanding children/parents

an overdemanding boss/client

an overdemanding workload

… he is making himself as unpleasant and overdemanding as possible, to see if the staff will stay polite and efficient under the most annoying kind of pressure.

—J. C. Furnas

Word History

First Known Use

1949, in the meaning defined above