modest

adjective

mod·​est ˈmä-dəst 

1

a

: placing a moderate estimate on one's abilities or worth

b

: neither bold nor self-assertive : tending toward diffidence

2

: arising from or characteristic of a modest nature

3

: observing the proprieties of dress and behavior : decent

4

a

: limited in size, amount, or scope

a family of modest means

b

: unpretentious

a modest home

modestly adverb

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Modest: Ever So Humble

When used to modify a sum or amount, or to mean "unpretentious," modest conveys a sense of not being excessive:

Captives received a modest salary of $0.80 per day, working at farms around Sonoma County picking apples, prunes, hops and other crops.
Janet Balicki, The Santa Rosa (Calif.) Press Democrat, 8 Dec. 2016

The minister of foreign affairs drove up in a modest car and joined our conversation.
Michael Taussig, Vice, 22 June 2016

The adjective humble is often used this way too, as when one speaks of "one's humble abode." Both words can be used in a humorous way that might be seen as self-deprecating.

Like humble, modest adequately describe one who does not boast about one's achievements, thereby avoiding a different kind of excessiveness:

Louisa May Alcott was always modest about her gifts; whatever early dreams of genius she might have nourished had been knocked out of her years before her literary fame arrived.
Barbara L. Packer, The New York Times Book Review, 25 Oct. 1987

Soft-spoken and modest in conversation, Knoll would be accomplished enough with his visual-effects credits in movies alone.
Julie Hinds, The Detroit Free Press, 11 Dec. 2016

Synonyms

• average
• intermediate
• mean
• median
• medium
• middle
• middling
• midsize
• midsized
• moderate

Choose the Right Synonym for modest

shy, bashful, diffident, modest, coy mean not inclined to be forward.

shy implies a timid reserve and a shrinking from familiarity or contact with others.

shy with strangers

bashful implies a frightened or hesitant shyness characteristic of childhood and adolescence.

a bashful boy out on his first date

diffident stresses a distrust of one's own ability or opinion that causes hesitation in acting or speaking.

felt diffident about raising an objection

modest suggests absence of undue confidence or conceit.

modest about her success

coy implies a pretended shyness.

put off by her coy manner

chaste, pure, modest, decent mean free from all taint of what is lewd or salacious.

chaste primarily implies a refraining from acts or even thoughts or desires that are not virginal or not sanctioned by marriage vows.

they maintained chaste relations

pure differs from chaste in implying innocence and absence of temptation rather than control of one's impulses and actions.

the pure of heart

modest and decent apply especially to deportment and dress as outward signs of inward chastity or purity.

preferred more modest swimsuits

decent people didn't go to such movies

Examples of modest in a Sentence

… these remnants he lacked the will to discard, depressed him, deepening the low fever of depression in which even as modest a task as removing a blue doorknob loomed like a mountain almost impossible to climb. —John Updike, Harper's, October 2004

You're the hero, so then you have to behave in a certain way—there is a prescription for it. You have to be modest, you have to be forbearing, you have to be deferential, you have to be understanding. —Philip Roth, American Pastoral, 1997

They own a modest home near the beach.

She enjoyed modest success with her singing career.

He earns a modest income.

We live on a modest budget.

New cars are now available at relatively modest prices.

He has only a modest amount of knowledge on the subject.

It is a book of only modest importance.

She's very modest about her achievements.

Don't be so modest. Your performance was wonderful!

“I'm not a hero. I was just doing my job,” he said in his characteristically modest way.

Recent Examples on the Web

The year-on-year increases at each major are more modest, usually between 10 and 12 percent, but that percentage of tournament revenue remains steadfast, if not entirely immovable. —Matthew Futterman, The Athletic, 9 Jan. 2025

In the bond market, which has been the bigger focus for Wall Street recently, the moves were also more modest after the last month’s charge higher for yields. —Stan Choe, Los Angeles Times, 8 Jan. 2025

By that metric, many of the best-off teachers are in rural districts where salaries are relatively modest, but home prices are low. —Phillip Reese, Sacramento Bee, 8 Jan. 2025

After updating the light duty RAM 1500s in 2024, 2025 brings some notable upgrades to the heavy duty 2500, 3500, 4500 and 5500 models in pickup truck and chassis cab form factors As with last year’s 1500 refresh, the visual updates to the HD models are all relatively modest. —Sam Abuelsamid, Forbes, 7 Jan. 2025

Word History

Etymology

Latin modestus moderate; akin to Latin modus measure

First Known Use

1550, in the meaning defined at sense 3

Kids Definition

modest

adjective

mod·​est ˈmäd-əst 

1

a

: having a limited and not overly high opinion of oneself and one's abilities

b

: not boastful : somewhat shy

a modest winner

2

: moderate in amount, size, or extent

a modest request

a modest cottage

3

: clean and proper in thought, conduct, and dress : decent

4

: limited in size, amount, or scope

modestly adverb