hot mess

noun

plural hot messes

1

informal : something or someone that is emphatically a mess: such as

a

: something in a state of extreme disorder or disarray

His latest outing, to a hot mess of a boutique hotel in New Mexico, is just as full of withering asides and bleeped-out F-bombs.

—TV Guide

b

: a disorganized, disheveled, or self-destructive person

She's a hard-drinking hot mess who scavenges the streets for castoff furniture and clothing that she spruces up and sometimes sells; how she survives in contemporary Los Angeles is one of the movie's biggest mysteries.

—Sheri Lindenn

also : such a person who is at the same time attractive or sexy

However, Everett actually is a hot mess when she performs. Her stage presence is erotic and chaotic, her big blond body wrapped in something low-cut and sheer.

—Molly Adams

2

archaic

a

: a hot dish especially of soft or pulpy food

… there was a stove over which our guides made a hot mess of flour and water which passed for soup.

—Edwin Swift Balch

b

: a hot mixture of ingredients cooked or eaten together

They were supping or breakfasting together off a hot mess of meat and vegetables, and rose up at our entrance, for the room boasted of a wooden bench and couple of ricketty stools.

—Henry Vizetelly

Examples of hot mess in a Sentence

Recent Examples on the Web

Not to mention, Van Pelt’s top running back can’t stop fumbling, and the offensive line remains a hot mess. —Andrew Callahan, Boston Herald, 22 Dec. 2024

Like all good comedy heroines (paging Carrie Bradshaw), Ruby is a hot mess whose behavior alienates AJ, her family and her colleagues at her party planning job. —Scarlett Harris, IndieWire, 21 Dec. 2024

Once the league’s model franchise and long its most successful, having hoisted 12 trophies, the Galaxy were a hot mess. —Kevin Baxter, Los Angeles Times, 29 Nov. 2024

If your phone’s home screen is a hot mess, folders to the rescue! —Kim Komando, Fox News, 4 Oct. 2024

Word History

First Known Use

circa 1772, in the meaning defined at sense 2b

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Our research turned up two archaic literal meanings