demure

adjective

de·​mure di-ˈmyu̇r How to pronounce demure (audio)
1
2
: affectedly modest, reserved, or serious : coy
demurely adverb
demureness noun

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In the nearly seven centuries that demure has been in use, its meaning has only shifted slightly. While it began solely as a descriptive term for people of quiet modesty and sedate reserve—those who don't draw attention to themselves, whether because of a shy nature or determined self-control—it came to be applied also to those whose modesty and reservation is more affectation than sincere expression. While demure sounds French and entered the language at a time when the native tongue of England was borrowing many French words from the Normans, the etymological evidence requires that we exercise restraint: the word's origin remains obscure.

Examples of demure in a Sentence

So even if you think you've moved past your reputation as The Rebel, two minutes after getting together with your more demure sister, you're likely to fall back into that hell-raiser role. Jessica Mehalic, Cosmopolitan, August 2001
It looked as though the dress and capelet were one piece. It created a demure look, but if you take off the capelet, it's a seductive strapless dress. Elizabeth Hayt, Vogue, December 1999
I made a lot of friends at Les Tourelles with whom I have kept in touch over the years. There was one darling little girl, much younger than the rest of us, who was sweet, demure, and quiet, with beautiful long hair like Alice in Wonderland. Anna Russell, I'm Not Making This Up, You Know, 1985
She was wearing a demure gray suit. the demure charm of the cottage
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While Princess Kate seems to favor demure headtoppers, Queen Camilla doesn't shy from going big and bold. Janine Henni, People.com, 20 Nov. 2024 Purser’s Anne isn’t the demure ingenue of more traditional productions, even though McDonald’s Edouard Dindon has no problem playing the farcical parental heavy. Charles McNulty, Los Angeles Times, 19 Nov. 2024 Taylor Swift touched down with a demure updo at the Chiefs' game. Nicole Fallert, USA TODAY, 11 Nov. 2024 Pence's credibility among the Christian right, his hardline cultural views, and his demure personability ran contrary to Trump, the Times reported, which appeared to potentially factor into Trump's hesitancy to select Pence. David Faris, Newsweek, 4 Nov. 2024 See all Example Sentences for demure 

Word History

Etymology

Middle English

First Known Use

14th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1

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The first known use of demure was in the 14th century

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“Demure.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/demure. Accessed 30 Nov. 2024.

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demure

adjective
de·​mure di-ˈmyu̇(ə)r How to pronounce demure (audio)
1
a
: quiet and polite
a demure young lady
b
: not showy or flashy
a demure gray dress
2
: falsely modest, reserved, or serious : coy
demurely adverb
demureness noun

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