grudge

1 of 2

verb

grudged; grudging

transitive verb

: to be unwilling to give or admit : give or allow reluctantly or resentfully
didn't grudge the time
grudger noun

grudge

2 of 2

noun

: a feeling of deep-seated resentment or ill will
held no grudge against those who mistreated him
Choose the Right Synonym for grudge

malice, malevolence, ill will, spite, malignity, spleen, grudge mean the desire to see another experience pain, injury, or distress.

malice implies a deep-seated often unexplainable desire to see another suffer.

felt no malice toward their former enemies

malevolence suggests a bitter persistent hatred that is likely to be expressed in malicious conduct.

a look of dark malevolence

ill will implies a feeling of antipathy of limited duration.

ill will provoked by a careless remark

spite implies petty feelings of envy and resentment that are often expressed in small harassments.

petty insults inspired by spite

malignity implies deep passion and relentlessness.

a life consumed by motiveless malignity

spleen suggests the wrathful release of latent spite or persistent malice.

venting his spleen against politicians

grudge implies a harbored feeling of resentment or ill will that seeks satisfaction.

never one to harbor a grudge

Examples of grudge in a Sentence

Verb I don't grudge paying my share. I don't grudge her the opportunities she has been given. Noun She still has a grudge against him for the way he treated her in school. He has nursed a grudge against his former boss for years. I don't bear him any grudges.
Recent Examples on the Web
Verb
Putin’s apparatus has pivoted in recent days to grudging acknowledgment that the likely culprits had an agenda unrelated to Ukraine: revenge for years of carnage carried out by Russian security forces in Syria, Chechnya and other Muslim states. Laura King, Los Angeles Times, 27 Mar. 2024 Beijing and Moscow have, in particular, gone from grudging participants in Western attempts to pressure Pyongyang into curbing its illicit weapons programs to openly supporting the Kim regime. Jonathan Corrado, Foreign Affairs, 15 Feb. 2024 The Taliban authorities vacillated between grudging accommodation and weary rejection of our attention, but Ross had an uncanny ability to connect. Victor Blue, The New Yorker, 21 Dec. 2023 There is a clear sense of direction, almost a narrative sensibility, in the five tracks’ grudging progression from darkness to something approaching light. Philip Sherburne, Pitchfork, 28 Aug. 2023 Surrounded by eager new lawmakers, his eyes are dim, his smile grudging. Molly Ball, Time, 20 July 2023 At the moment, Israel’s right-wing coalition government’s plan to disempower the Supreme Court there is on hold, a mark of grudging deference to what have been the largest peaceful protests in the country’s history. Nicholas Lemann, The New Yorker, 13 June 2023 Their party was more likely to eschew deadly and costly violence in favor of grudging compromise and coexistence. Caitlin Fitz, The Atlantic, 8 Apr. 2020 Corbyn, meanwhile, began to win grudging praise from the guardians of established opinion for his willingness to coordinate the resistance. David Graeber, The New York Review of Books, 13 Jan. 2020
Noun
The immediate reviews have not been kind, pointing out the clunkiness of certain lyrics and accusing Swift of solipsism bordering on self-obsession or of digging up old grudges better left buried. Sophie Gilbert, The Atlantic, 24 Apr. 2024 And a fatal shooting earlier this year during the Super Bowl victory celebration in Kansas City underscores the danger people in big crowds face, even during the happiest of times, when an idiot with a gun and a grudge starts popping off shots. Detroit Free Press, 22 Apr. 2024 Brenner juxtaposes her work preserving what’s beautiful and precious for clients against her mother’s aging and decline, a period during which old grudges fade and their relationship softens. Longreads, 19 Apr. 2024 Knauss also mentioned holding grudges and suggested that the neighbor hadn't witnessed the extent of his actions yet. The Arizona Republic, 23 Mar. 2024 For the Raptors fans who are still on the fence about Carter — just know that life is too short to be holding grudges. Esfandiar Baraheni, Forbes, 22 Feb. 2024 But some grudges don’t last forever in Hollywood, as Lorre and Sheen have reportedly reconciled and united on the Max series, Bookie. EW.com, 7 Apr. 2024 The Warriors are a veteran team trying to hold onto the last vestiges of dominance—and perhaps pining for grudges that expired a half-decade ago. Dieter Kurtenbach, The Mercury News, 4 Apr. 2024 Yet that use of language and imagery is something Trump has intensified in his increasingly personal grudge rematch against Biden this year. Phillip M. Bailey, USA TODAY, 31 Mar. 2024

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Word History

Etymology

Verb

Middle English grucchen, grudgen to grumble, complain, from Anglo-French grucer, grucher, of Germanic origin; akin to Middle High German grogezen to howl

Noun

derivative of grudge entry 1

First Known Use

Verb

14th century, in the meaning defined above

Noun

15th century, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of grudge was in the 14th century

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Cite this Entry

“Grudge.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/grudge. Accessed 30 Apr. 2024.

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grudge

1 of 2 verb
grudged; grudging
grudger noun
grudgingly
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adverb

grudge

2 of 2 noun
: a strong lasting feeling of resentment toward someone for a real or imagined wrong

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