tact

noun

ˈtakt 

1

: a keen sense of what to do or say in order to maintain good relations with others or avoid offense

2

: sensitive mental or aesthetic perception

converted the novel into a play with remarkable skill and tact

Did you know?

Do you change tack or tact?

Although some believe the word tact is short for tactics in phrases like "change tact" or "try a different tact," the correct word in such contexts is tack.

Tack in "change tack" and "try a different tack" means "a course or method of action especially when sharply divergent from that previously followed.”

Tack developed this meaning from its nautical applications. In sailing, tack can refer to the direction that a ship or boat is sailing in as it moves at an angle to the direction of the wind; or to a change from one direction to another direction; or to the distance traveled while sailing in a particular direction.

Tack developed the "course or method of action" meaning near the end of the 17th century; within 100 or so years, the phrase "change tack" was being used with the figurative meaning it has today.

While there is also a long history of people using tact where tack belongs, the use is widely shunned by usage guides, which means you might want to avoid it.

Did you know?

This word came to English directly from French (a Latin-based language), where it can also mean simply "sense of touch". Dealing with difficult situations involving other people can require the kind of extreme sensitivity that our fingertips possess. As Lincoln once said, "Tact is the ability to describe others as they see themselves", which doesn't usually come naturally. Someone tactful can soothe the feelings of the most difficult people; a tactless person will generally make a bad situation worse.

Synonyms

• diplomacy
• tactfulness

Choose the Right Synonym for tact

tact, address, poise, savoir faire mean skill and grace in dealing with others.

tact implies delicate and considerate perception of what is appropriate.

questions showing a lack of tact

address stresses dexterity and grace in dealing with new and trying situations and may imply success in attaining one's ends.

brought it off with remarkable address

poise may imply both tact and address but stresses self-possession and ease in meeting difficult situations.

answered the accusations with unruffled poise

savoir faire is likely to stress worldly experience and a sure awareness of what is proper or expedient.

the savoir faire of a seasoned traveler

Examples of tact in a Sentence

Far from joining polite society like the debutants of the past, the kids gleefully rip through social graces, alienating friends and sacrificing tact all in the name of creating a VIP room filled with people too young to drive themselves home. —Ana Marie Cox, Time, 24 Apr. 2006

The attorney general's lack of restraint and want of tact, on such an occasion … were clearly symptomatic of a considerable irritation, even rage. —Christopher Hitchens, Harper's, March 2001

In society tact is the great art that makes for civility, for civilization … —Jacques Barzun, From Dawn to Decadance, 2000

He did not clear his throat with badinage, as timidity teaches us to do, nor did he waste his breath with tact. —Earl Shorris, Harper's, September 1997

A man of gentle mien, he is inclined to use psychology and tact, rather than showboat heroics, when pursuing his murder inquiries. —Marilyn Stasio, New York Times Book Review, 1 Jan. 1989

The peace talks required great tact on the part of both leaders.

I was surprised by his lack of tact.

Recent Examples on the Web

Professionalism, on the other hand, requires tact and discernment. —Sarat Chakravarthi, Forbes, 17 Dec. 2024

Presumably, your friend has an unusually sensitive sense of smell, if not of tact. —Judith Martin, The Mercury News, 8 Oct. 2024

Ulf had some respect and tact issues, which enraged Jacaerys (Harry Collett), while Hugh and Addam appeared ready for the job. —Alli Rosenbloom, CNN, 5 Aug. 2024

Vampires have tact, decorum, and a code of honor, which may be the most old-fashioned thing about them. —Katie Rife, Vulture, 5 Nov. 2024

Word History

Etymology

French, sense of touch, from Latin tactus, from tangere to touch — more at tangent entry 2

First Known Use

1797, in the meaning defined at sense 2

Kids Definition

tact

noun

ˈtakt 

: the ability to deal with others without offending them

tactless

ˈtak-tləs

adjective

tactlessly adverb

tactlessness noun