untogether

adjective

un·​to·​geth·​er ˌən-tə-ˈge-t͟hər 

: not together

especially, informal : not composed in mind or manner

One of them, from Dan to Cindy, left a phone number and an apologetic yet hopeful note explaining that, "I'm sorry I was too untogether to remember to ask for your address."

—Corey Kilgannon

Word History

First Known Use

1969, in the meaning defined above