self-effacing

adjective

self-ef·​fac·​ing ˌself-i-ˈfā-siŋ How to pronounce self-effacing (audio)
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: having or showing a tendency to make oneself modestly or shyly inconspicuous
His passions and faith run soul-deep, his gentle wit is always self-effacing and never insulting …Don Gaetz
… she was an extremely self-effacing, private person who never sought the limelight and did not leave the usual artifacts that enable a biographer to reconstruct life patterns.Douglas R. McManis

Examples of self-effacing in a Sentence

he's dating a sweet, self-effacing girl
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The actor-director, in typical self-effacing fashion, doesn't claim to have solved the problem of the Holocaust film in making one himself. Esther Zuckerman, TIME, 1 Nov. 2024 Here, Rowlands plays Sarah Lawson, a self-effacing love addict with no sense of self beyond her relation to others. Emma Madden, Vulture, 16 Aug. 2024 On the trail, this involves a delicate pairing of self-effacing anecdote and grand proclamation. Sarah Larson, The New Yorker, 30 Sep. 2024 Our self-effacing narrator is Victor (Mouret regular Vincent Macaigne), the schlubby, doting husband of high-school English teacher Joan (India Hair), who is beginning to feel stifled by his unwavering devotion. Guy Lodge, Variety, 30 Aug. 2024 See all Example Sentences for self-effacing 

Word History

First Known Use

1854, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-effacing was in 1854

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“Self-effacing.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-effacing. Accessed 21 Nov. 2024.

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