: pity for oneself
especially : a self-indulgent dwelling on one's own sorrows or misfortunes
self-pitying adjective
self-pityingly adverb

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This is not about wallowing in self-pity but rather accepting that setbacks happen to everyone. Benjamin Laker, Forbes, 19 Dec. 2024 Corbet recalled shooting the scene where Van Buren leads a group of party guests outside to a hillside overlook that would become the location for his institute and delivers a long speech that is somehow both self-pitying and self-aggrandizing. Mark Olsen, Los Angeles Times, 19 Dec. 2024 Satan is harsh and hypnotic, romantic and self-pitying in his despair. Merve Emre, The New Yorker, 16 Dec. 2024 Needless to say, this particular motive is not mentioned in Biden’s solipsistic and self-pitying statement. Isaac Chotiner, The New Yorker, 2 Dec. 2024 See all Example Sentences for self-pity 

Word History

First Known Use

1604, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-pity was in 1604

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“Self-pity.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-pity. Accessed 3 Jan. 2025.

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self-pity

noun
ˈself-ˈpit-ē
: pity for oneself
especially : too much attention to one's misfortunes
self-pitying
-ē-iŋ
adjective

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