paramour
noun
par·amour
ˈper-ə-ˌmu̇r 
ˈpa-rə-
: lover
specifically
: an illicit or secret lover
a married man and his paramour
Her account put him in the position of looking like the duped lover believing the cheating married paramour's protestation of love … —
Bettina Drew
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Paramour came to English from French (a language based on Latin), though the modern French don't use the word. Since par amour meant "through love", it implies a relationship based solely on love, often physical love, rather than on social custom or ceremony. So today it tends to refer to the lover of a married man or woman, but may be used for any lover who isn't obeying the social rules.
Examples of paramour in a Sentence
And faster than you can say "You've got mail!" he fell hard for his unseen paramour.
—Kipp Cheng, Entertainment Weekly, 23 Oct. 1998
His Vietnamese paramour was a young woman of remarkable beauty.
—Neil Sheehan, A Bright Shining Lie, 1988
As the vessel made sail immediately, and landed no part of their cargo, there seemed little doubt that they were accomplices of the notorious Robertson, and that the vessel had only come into the firth to carry off his paramour.
—Walter Scott, The Heart of Midlothian, 1818
Kipp Cheng, Entertainment Weekly, 23 Oct. 1998
His Vietnamese paramour was a young woman of remarkable beauty.
—Neil Sheehan, A Bright Shining Lie, 1988
As the vessel made sail immediately, and landed no part of their cargo, there seemed little doubt that they were accomplices of the notorious Robertson, and that the vessel had only come into the firth to carry off his paramour.
—Walter Scott, The Heart of Midlothian, 1818
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In this scene, Romy and her paramour, Samuel (Harris Dickinson), were alone in a cheap hotel room in Manhattan, attempting to define their new dynamic.
—Alex Barasch, The New Yorker, 9 Dec. 2024
The drama is largely relational, as the Koubek brothers and their paramours wrestle with the conventions that pervade their lives.
—Andrea Long Chu, Vulture, 20 Sep. 2024
Scott nailed his audition with ease and was rewarded with the plum role of Ben Wyatt, the dorky state auditor and former child mayor who becomes series the primary paramour of series lead Leslie Knope (Amy Poehler).
—Ryan Coleman, EW.com, 23 Nov. 2024
Sylvie is watching her Italian paramour shoot a commercial starring Debi Mazar!!
—Jessica M. Goldstein, Vulture, 12 Sep. 2024
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Alex Barasch, The New Yorker, 9 Dec. 2024
The drama is largely relational, as the Koubek brothers and their paramours wrestle with the conventions that pervade their lives.
—Andrea Long Chu, Vulture, 20 Sep. 2024
Scott nailed his audition with ease and was rewarded with the plum role of Ben Wyatt, the dorky state auditor and former child mayor who becomes series the primary paramour of series lead Leslie Knope (Amy Poehler).
—Ryan Coleman, EW.com, 23 Nov. 2024
Sylvie is watching her Italian paramour shoot a commercial starring Debi Mazar!!
—Jessica M. Goldstein, Vulture, 12 Sep. 2024
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“Paramour.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/paramour. Accessed 2 Jan. 2025.
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paramour
noun
par·amour
ˈpar-ə-ˌmu̇r
: a partner in a sexual relationship other than that of husband and wife
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