demure

adjective

de·​mure di-ˈmyu̇r How to pronounce demure (audio)
1
a
: reserved or modest in manner
a demure smile
… cultural stereotypes of women being feminine and demure.Jacqueline Fitzgerald
b
: modestly styled or dressed
a demure neckline
… looked prim and proper in a demure dress …Yaron Steinbuch
Meanwhile Meghan was demure in a long white gown and matching hat …Kayla Walsh
2
: affectedly modest, reserved, or serious : coy
… Becky had a knack of adopting a demure ingénue air, under which she was most dangerous.William Makepeace Thackeray
demurely adverb
demureness noun

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In the nearly seven centuries that demure has been in use, its meaning has only shifted slightly. While it began solely as a descriptive term for people of quiet modesty and sedate reserve—those who don't draw attention to themselves, whether because of a shy nature or determined self-control—it came to be applied also to those whose modesty and reservation is more affectation than sincere expression. While demure sounds French and entered the language at a time when the native tongue of England was borrowing many French words from the Normans, the etymological evidence requires that we exercise restraint: the word's origin remains obscure.

Examples of demure in a Sentence

So even if you think you've moved past your reputation as The Rebel, two minutes after getting together with your more demure sister, you're likely to fall back into that hell-raiser role. Jessica Mehalic, Cosmopolitan, August 2001
It looked as though the dress and capelet were one piece. It created a demure look, but if you take off the capelet, it's a seductive strapless dress. Elizabeth Hayt, Vogue, December 1999
I made a lot of friends at Les Tourelles with whom I have kept in touch over the years. There was one darling little girl, much younger than the rest of us, who was sweet, demure, and quiet, with beautiful long hair like Alice in Wonderland. Anna Russell, I'm Not Making This Up, You Know, 1985
She was wearing a demure gray suit. the demure charm of the cottage
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When Do Da-hae (The 8 Show’s Chun Woo-hee), a seemingly demure con artist with designs on the Bok’s riches, starts to flirt with him, a struggling Gwi-ju is too depressed to care. Kayti Burt, TIME, 18 Dec. 2024 The actor wore a cream, silk a-line dress from the 60s, its buttoned up, rounded collar a demure giveaway of its era. Anna Cafolla, Vogue, 18 Dec. 2024 Now put on some high-heeled platform boots, sleep on your makeup, hit the dance floor and start the countdown for Brat Christmas! 'Very demure, very mindful' Social media creator Jools Lebron posted style tips on TikTok in August that wowed the world. Julie Hinds, Detroit Free Press, 13 Dec. 2024 Coco Jones Coco Jones looked demure in a black mini dress, matching fur coat and knee-high boots. Catherine Santino, People.com, 13 Dec. 2024 See all Example Sentences for demure 

Word History

Etymology

Middle English

First Known Use

14th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1a

Time Traveler
The first known use of demure was in the 14th century

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“Demure.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/demure. Accessed 22 Dec. 2024.

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demure

adjective
de·​mure di-ˈmyu̇(ə)r How to pronounce demure (audio)
1
a
: quiet and polite
a demure young lady
b
: not showy or flashy
a demure gray dress
2
: falsely modest, reserved, or serious : coy
demurely adverb
demureness noun

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