chivalry

noun

chiv·​al·​ry ˈshi-vəl-rē 

plural chivalries

1

: mounted men-at-arms

… the eleven kings with their chivalry never turned back …

—Thomas Malory

2

archaic

a

: martial (see martial sense 1) valor

b

: knightly skill

3

: gallant or distinguished gentlemen

… Belgium's capital had gathered then her beauty and her chivalry …

—Lord Byron

4

: the system, spirit, or customs of medieval knighthood

but Lancelot on him urged all the devisings of their chivalry

—Alfred Tennyson

5

: the qualities of the ideal knight : chivalrous conduct

chivalry demanded of him that he be conspicuous through his gallant, courteous, and generous behavior

—H. W. Van Loon

Did you know?

Chivalry is dead, they say. The statement is indisputably true in at least one sense: the word chivalry first referred to medieval knights, as in “the king was accompanied by his chivalry,” and we're quite certain those knights are all long gone. But the word’s meaning has shifted since the 14th century, with other meanings joining the first over the years. Today, chivalry typically refers to an honorable and polite way of behaving, especially by men toward women. And when people say “chivalry is dead” they’re usually bemoaning either a perceived lack of good manners among those they encounter generally, or a dearth of men holding doors for appreciative women. The word came to English by way of French, and is ultimately from the Late Latin word caballārius, meaning “horseback rider, groom,” ancestor too of another term for a daring medieval gentleman-at-arms: cavalier. In a twist, the adjective form of cavalier is often used to describe someone who is overly nonchalant about important matters—not exactly chivalrous.

Examples of chivalry in a Sentence

the knight's code of chivalry

He paid her fare as an act of chivalry.

Recent Examples on the Web

There are knights with a strong sense of chivalry, and dueling beliefs in faeries and Jesus Christ, and a deep passion for questing. —Erik Kain, Forbes, 10 Oct. 2024

Of the 3,000 single women surveyed, 56% said chivalry is very important in a potential partner. —Laura Daniella Sepulveda, The Arizona Republic, 9 Aug. 2024

Not so in Martin's realm: Sansa, the only character who appears to buy into notions of chivalry, is painted as pitiably naive. —Charli Carpenter, Foreign Affairs, 29 Mar. 2012

According to the survey of about 3,000 women, more than half agreed that chivalry is a crucial trait in a potential partner. —Laura Daniella Sepulveda, The Arizona Republic, 9 Aug. 2024

Word History

Etymology

Middle English chevalerie, chivalerie, chevalrye, chyvalrie "body of mounted soldiers or knights serving an overlord, knights and their lords as a social class, warfare, feat of arms, values (as valor and generosity) constituting the code of knighthood," borrowed from Anglo-French chevalerie, chivalerie (also continental Old French), from chevaler, chivaler, chivalier "horseman, mounted soldier, knight" + -erie -ery — more at chevalier

Note: Regarding the pronunciation with initial \sh\ see note at chivalrous.

First Known Use

14th century, in the meaning defined at sense 1

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Kids Definition

chivalry

noun

chiv·​al·​ry ˈshiv-əl-rē 

1

: a body of knights

2

: the system, spirit, ways, or customs of knighthood

3

: chivalrous conduct

Etymology

Middle English chivalrie "group of knights, qualities of knighthood," from early French chevalerie (same meaning), from chevalier "knight, noble horseman," from Latin caballarius "horseman," from earlier caballus "horse" — related to cavalier, cavalry

Word Origin

In the Middle Ages the French referred to a knight as a chevalier. This word is derived from the Latin word for "horseman," caballarius, which in turn comes from Latin caballus, meaning "horse." Knights were supposed to follow a code of conduct which required them to be brave, devoted to duty, and kind to the weak. The French word for these qualities was chevalerie. When this noun was borrowed into English, it became chivalry. Its adjective forms are chivalrous and chivalric. The Latin word for "horseman," caballarius, has also given us two other common English words. One is cavalry, meaning "troops mounted on horseback," and the other is cavalier, which as a noun means "mounted knight, gentleman" and as an adjective means "tending to ignore the rights of others." Cavalier may be traced back through French and Italian to its Latin source. In English, cavalier was used especially to refer to a mounted soldier who was colorful in dress and gallant in manner. During the English Civil War (1641–1649), those who backed the king were called Cavaliers, probably because of their vivid look and stylish manners. Some cavaliers, however, became proud and rude. They showed scorn for people of lower social rank. The result was that the adjective cavalier came to be used to describe such a scornful person.