at cross-purposes

idiom

: in a way that causes confusion or failure because people are working or talking with different goals or purposes
We'll never succeed together if we continue to work at cross-purposes (with each other).
It became clear that they were talking at cross-purposes.

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The fact that the session is filmed for consumption by the very public Alec claims to want to avoid does seem at cross-purposes with his expressed desire. Naomi Fry, The New Yorker, 15 Mar. 2025 That appeared to put the Bureau of Prisons at cross-purposes with the executive order. Mattathias Schwartz, New York Times, 22 Feb. 2025 In an otherwise simplistic story of good versus evil, watching two good guys at cross-purposes is often fun. Ben Rosenstock, Vulture, 24 Jan. 2025 Attempting to follow Muslim customs, each family member is at cross-purposes. Armond White, National Review, 22 Jan. 2025 See All Example Sentences for at cross-purposes

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“At cross-purposes.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/at%20cross-purposes. Accessed 31 Mar. 2025.

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