etiquette

noun

et·​i·​quette ˈe-ti-kət How to pronounce etiquette (audio)
-ˌket
: the conduct or procedure required by good breeding or prescribed by authority to be observed in social or official life

Did you know?

If you’re looking for a polite topic of conversation to raise at your next gathering of word lovers, we’ve got just the ticket. The French word étiquette means “ticket”; its direct French ancestor also referred to a label attached to something for description or identification. Spaniards of the 16th-century adopted the French word (altering it to etiqueta), and used it to refer to the written protocols describing the behavior demanded of those who appeared at court. Eventually, etiqueta came to be applied to the court ceremonies themselves as well as to the documents which outlined their requirements. Word of this linguistic development got back to the French, who then expanded their word’s meaning to include “proper court behavior” along with its “label” sense. By the middle of the 18th century English speakers had taken on etiquette as their own, applying it to the rules that indicate the proper and polite way to behave, whether in the presence or royalty or not.

Examples of etiquette in a Sentence

Her failure to respond to the invitation was a serious breach of etiquette. the couple exhibited poor etiquette when they left the party without saying good-bye to the host and hostess
Recent Examples on the Web
Examples are automatically compiled from online sources to show current usage. Read More Opinions expressed in the examples do not represent those of Merriam-Webster or its editors. Send us feedback.
In This Article Seating Place Settings Enjoyment Invitations Deadlines Timelines Event etiquette can be tricky, and there are a lot of best practices to keep track of. Quincy Bulin, Southern Living, 21 Mar. 2025 Judith Martin, who runs the Miss Manners column, agreed with the father of the bride, noting that since a wedding did not take place, under etiquette rules, the presents should be returned. Kimberlee Speakman, People.com, 20 Mar. 2025 What is the etiquette for a patient who is a physician addressing the doctor providing care? Judith Martin, The Mercury News, 18 Mar. 2025 View on Reddit 42K upvotes Comment View 1995 comments Insurance expert Don Worley, president and managing attorney at McDonald Worley, and etiquette expert Jo Hayes weighed in on the situation with Newsweek. Dan Perry, Newsweek, 18 Mar. 2025 See All Example Sentences for etiquette

Word History

Etymology

French étiquette, literally, ticket — more at ticket entry 1

First Known Use

1737, in the meaning defined above

Time Traveler
The first known use of etiquette was in 1737

Browse Nearby Words

Podcast

Cite this Entry

“Etiquette.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/etiquette. Accessed 2 Apr. 2025.

Kids Definition

etiquette

noun
et·​i·​quette ˈet-i-kət How to pronounce etiquette (audio)
-ˌket
: the rules governing the proper way to behave
Etymology

from French étiquette "etiquette," literally, "ticket," from earlier etiquet "ticket" — related to ticket

More from Merriam-Webster on etiquette

Last Updated: - Updated example sentences
Love words? Need even more definitions?

Subscribe to America's largest dictionary and get thousands more definitions and advanced search—ad free!